Not long ago, I started listening to podcasts. I mean, I had been listening to a couple here and there for a few years, but now I actually took the time to look and see what is out there. I went in search of shows that were not only going to fit my interests, but also that would in some way be of benefit to me.
Currently I seem to be spending most of the time listening to 2 shows in particular. One is a Chiropractic show called Spinal Column Radio. And, it’s really helped me shift my mindset on how I want to practice and want my office to run. It’s also tied me into some new doctors to listen in on, or read their books or blogs.
The other show is what really got me to thinking about this particular post. It’s called The Fizzle Show, and it’s 3 guys that actually in some ways remind me of myself and 2 of my best buddies. Their personalities just seem to match ours in a lot of ways.
Anyway, there was an episode that I heard the other day in which one of the guys, Corbett Barr, talked about a list he has of What Matters.
They discussed this list on the show, and how he came up with it. Apparently a while back there was an article circling the web talking about the top regrets of the dying. The list of regrets gave Corbett some inspiration to actually make a list of what’s important in his life. You can find the list here.
So, now they had me hooked. I couldn’t help but think of all the different things going on in my life. Ask my wife, and she would tell you that I am always coming up with something to do or some place to go. I very seldom take the time to “stop and smell the roses”.
Truthfully, I have had a lot of thought on that recently, and want to make some changes. Nonetheless, it’s part of who I am. And, I could no easier just start to turn my mind off than I could change the direction the wind blows.
But, this list gives me a different perspective. It helps me narrow down what is important to me, What Matters. And, I can use it to help me make decisions on what I really want to get involved with doing.
Now, of course, this exact list may not be what helps me to decide anything. After all, these are the things that matter to Corbett. So, I have a challenge ahead of me. First, I need to sit down and make my own list. What matters to me? Once, I come up with that, most of my decisions, and all of the big decisions, will have to stand up to the test. Will ____ stand the test of What Matters to me?
Do you have a list of What Matters to you?